The Glory Days (Cross Posted)
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Originally this was just going to be a short little post where I like all the old articles/stories I wrote up on Oppo that I spent the day copying to DriveTribe. But I think it makes sense to say my goodbyes now... well... they’re not really goodbyes at all. They’re thank yous.
I found this place because I sent a bunch of emails to any automotive editor I could get my hands on. I wanted to know any tricks and secrets to entering the industry myself, and they gave me some good ones. But none of the advice could ever compare to Brian Silvestro’s edition: a link to Oppositelock.com.
I didn’t know it then, but I wasn’t just joining a community where everyone was posting article after article. I was joining a real-world community filled with the most genuine people I’ve ever come across. They were smarter than me, cooler than me, but also completely kind to anyone that hopped on the site. My first ever reply was on a post I knew virtually nothing about. @Shop-Teacher had just posted about trading an I-Beam for a pickup truck. All I could think to say was:
To which he soon replied:
It was a simple interaction that opened up a whole new world for me. I’d never been on a forum before, let alone a car forum, and whatever forum we end up on, it’s nice to know that hundreds of good people are going along with it.
This entire post will just be me wielding the new and wonderful power that is creating an Oppositelock post. I’ll likely end up sharing opinions on cars I really like, or stories of things I see on the road, I don’t really know yet. I like cars, but I’m no blogger, and certainly no photographer (that thumbnail picture is one of the first photos I’ve taken while in public. Not exactly a fan of whipping out my camera, but capturing this beast in the wild was too important).
My first post (which I didn’t repost to DT because the value came in the comments that were written, not the story that was told) was flooded with friendly welcome messages and faces. I’d finally met someone who had and appreciated a TSX wagon as much as I did. And it felt really cool that the mods were engaged with newbies just as much as they were old members. I felt welcomed, and still do.
Now, that’s all well and good. It’s one thing to just play nice on the internet, but Oppo has given me so much more. You all have infinite loads of insight, wisdom, and experience that will impress me for years to come, but you didn’t make me feel stupid admitting that. I felt safe to ask questions, and I asked plenty. It started with small things, like which jack stands I should buy (will invest in those early next year), what car I had as my desktop picture, little things like that.
I eventually mustered up the courage to change my own wipers, an hour-long job that should’ve taken about 10 minutes.
But it escalated to the point where you all helped me build up enough confidence to change my own oil:
Without you, I would’ve never touched my car and forever assumed Firestone did all the right things... now I know that the corporate mechanics sometimes cut corners. And even on the day of the oil change, I panicked, fearing I’d just overfilled the engine. Where did I turn? To Oppo of course, and the good people who calmed me down and reassured me that I wasn’t an idiot and that my car wasn’t broken. If you can’t tell, I’m not the confident type. So everyone rallying to my side to aide me made me feel like I had people to turn to.
But I also wanted to impress you all, and not look like a super idiot/imposter disguising himself as a car guy. You all gave me a reason to put time and effort into my writings, and I ended up making some posts I’m still pretty proud of!
Automation Video Game Full Review
An article on the Honda N600/Z600
They may not be perfect, but they were articles that made me feel like I was writing professionally for the very first time. They’re articles that landed me a job:
And while you were all quick to correct me and my idiot ramblings, or enlighten me with your stories on related topics, you actually listened. You gave me a reason to write stuff. It’s hard to tell jokes when you don’t have an audience/anybody to play off of. You were that audience, and it made me feel like I was always in communication with some parts of the world.
And that also made me feel a little better about sharing stories and views of my own.
It’s been very nice to be apart of a community that actually listens and is interested in what their members have to say/write/do in their day-to-day lives. It’s a bunch of die-hard car nerds who don’t spend every waking moment talking about cars... just most of the moments. Oppo has been a place where everyone is there for everyone, and in recent days, that’s hasn’t only been nice, it’s been necessary.
Recently, all the people I once turned to have been falling away (this is the sappy part of the post I wanted to write later, but now just feels right). I go to school in Florida, though because it’s online right now I could go to school anywhere. I’ve slowly lost touch with everyone I met on campus, most of who I’ll never actually see again. My roommate got a girlfriend, which is all well and good, but it means I find myself alone an awful lot. My friends back home are... well... back home. It’s always nice to call and keep in touch, but visits are always better (I just got home from one, and I already want to go back). Though the real cherry on top is the fact that ever since I joined here my parents were splitting up.
It was a mutually agreed divorce, they told me on Christmas Eve of 2019 (my 2020 was doomed from the start), and it’s been going as well as a divorce can... but it’s strange. I no longer have a childhood home. My dad has already met another woman (while my parents were still legally together), and is glomming onto her pretty hard physically and emotionally. In essence, it’s felt like I don’t have much of a constant anymore...
That is, except for you all.
Almost every day it seemed like I struck up a conversation with someone. Almost all the time I could come to the site and take my mind off of... anything.
Long story short (and this has been a long story), wherever this community is going, I’m going too. Whenever we get to see each other again, I’ll happily join in on an Oppo meet. I want nothing more than to see all the good people on this site face to face, because you all mean the world to me. More than you’ll ever realize.
Here’s to Oppo, and the greatest group of folks I’ve ever met. A group that allowed me to be apart of them.
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@Taylor-Martin Great write-up friend. My parents split when I was a teenager, so I feel your pain there. Dad had been seeing another woman on the side. Let's just say I've never forgiven him for that, even though I know I should. I won't go into more details there. I also barely talk to anybody I had been GOOD friends with in uni...life finds a way of making us drift apart.
BUT, I have my friends here at home, and I have Oppo. I've even made friends around the world from this wonderful community (I talk to semi-lapsed Opponaut @Borsuq daily about all sorts of terrible Eastern Bloc cars and European chods, plus other stuff, haha!
Glad you're still here with us! Have one of my favorite Oppo-ish videos to cheer you up and take your mind off of things for 10 minutes!
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@rallydarkstrike I'm sorry to hear about your family situation too man, that has to be tough, but it seems like you turned out a-okay! The people on Oppo have certainly filled the hole that used to be occupied by seeing friends at school every day, which is a massive help.
That video amazes me. Yeah, the trike is cool and all, and taking it apart is a feat in and of itself, but they took pictures of it and made a stop motion animation?!? That must've added SO many extra hours of labor to the project, but it turned out incredible!
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@taylor-martin that's neat to hear that such a simple interaction had any kind of affect
I don't even have that truck anymore, and I still need to dig that I-Beam out of the corner of my garage and give it to the guy.
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@shop-teacher Truth be told, I don't think there's such thing as a small act. Everything can have meaning and value... but maybe I'm just a bit too sentimental haha.
Glad I reminded yo about the I-Beam too, what ended up happening to the truck if I might ask?
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@taylor-martin said in The Glory Days (Cross Posted):
@rallydarkstrike I'm sorry to hear about your family situation too man, that has to be tough, but it seems like you turned out a-okay! The people on Oppo have certainly filled the hole that used to be occupied by seeing friends at school every day, which is a massive help.
That video amazes me. Yeah, the trike is cool and all, and taking it apart is a feat in and of itself, but they took pictures of it and made a stop motion animation?!? That must've added SO many extra hours of labor to the project, but it turned out incredible!
Yup, he has a cool channel, he's done a few other stop-motion videos as well! But yeah, I REALLY love how it turned out. I want to import an Ape TM, which is a larger model that was also available of car-style controls, and give it a similar personalization treatment to what he did!
My other favorite in a similar vein is this teardown and rebuild of a FIAT 126p engine:
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@taylor-martin The friend who gave it to me said to send it to Valhalla. He also gave me (unsolicited) permission to fix it up some and flip it, if that's what I felt was right.
My plan was to rallycross it and then maybe gamble it until it died. Well, the local SCCA wouldn't let me rallycross it. I could have fought my way in, but the response was so negative, that it turned me off to the whole idea anyways. Instead a couple buddies and I took it on a nearly 800 mile roadtrip, where it never missed a beat.
My buddy who was storing it, used it to make several trips back and forth to Michigan, to move his fiance (now wife) to Chicagoland. We had to fix a few things, but really not that much. We came to the conclusion that the truck had too much life left in it, to be killed off. Somebody could buy that cheap, and use it for a year or two to make a living.
So we decided to sell it. I got $900 for it. Unfortunately the guy who bought it, gave it to his teenage son, who killed it within three or four days
You can read all about that here.
It's a real shame. It would have made a great construction or landscaping truck for somebody. If it wasn't so rusty, my buddy would have sold his '95 Ram and kept it. Instead it got taken out back and shot
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@shop-teacher Dang stupid teenagers. At least it's final days were spend going on road trips and lugging people around. How did the kid kill it anyway, or is that unclear?
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@taylor-martin unclear. The guy who bought it for his kid, English is not his first language. All he would tell me is the motor is bad and the motor won't turn on.
The timeline was more than a little suspect. He bought it on a Wednesday afternoon, claimed to have already purchased the license plate and city sticker, but the very next day, "The motor won't turn on." That would have been Thursday morning. He didn't contact me until Saturday night.
I think the kid went out Friday night with his buddies, beat the crap out of it doing burnouts and whatnot, and either spun a bearing or threw a rod. He then limped it home, didn't tell his dad all day, and when it finally came to light late Saturday, then he complained to me.
If it had truly blown up on the way home, I would have told him to tow it to the junkyard, I would have met him there, and paid him the difference between what he paid me, and what he got from the junkyard.
But that ain't what happened. They had it for days, and who who knows what the kid did to that poor truck.
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@shop-teacher Sheesh, that's a shame. It doesn't matter if it's a 50k BMW or a 900 buck truck, no car should be thrashed to the point of death... unless it's designed to be thrashed like a race/drift car, in which case thrash away, but they won't just die from it.
But again, the truck spent its last days with you. The four or so days this kid had it, those shouldn't count.
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@taylor-martin I can relate. Back when Jalopnik sniped Oppo stories I had two hit the front page and thought hmmm, perhaps I should continue this.......fast forward about 5 years and my writing has appeared on Autotrader, SuperStreet, CNBC, MSN, DriveTribe, Speed Society, The Drive, Build Race Party, Right Foot Down, Jalopnik.............
